Concern = Level Maturity Level

Concern = Level Maturity Level 

               Every living human being or rather living certainly have problems. The problem can be very diverse and come from all corners of the condition of each individual. In an expression says that the problem is a necessity, and the necessity that must have come over to humans, regardless of age, gender, ethnicity or culture. But of course different levels. A toddler only problematic at best only his diaper or when the milk runs out, unlike many teenagers start having problems socially, or parents whose problem is quite complex. Nevertheless, the real problem is inevitable, because when we avoid the problem that new problems will emerge at the same level or even more severe. So, the problem should be dealt with, any consequences obtained because it is a step in maturation. 

            Generally, maturity is influenced by the way they encounter a problem. There are several types of people associated with the way they encounter and solve problems encountered nominally. Various types of people encountered in dealing with the problems, it does not directly reflect the level of maturity. As for some of these types are as follows; 

1. Paranoid / peace lover 

Paranoid is the worst level of maturity that suggests that someone is still far from mature. Paranoid is actually closely related to traumatic, because most traumatic is what causes a person to become paranoid. But there are also those who simply have a paranoid nature from birth. People who have a tendency towards paranoid coward, trying to run away from the problem, too afraid of the risks to the moon about something big is going to happen. The severity of such a person considers himself the most good, considers himself the most famous, or most adults. And everything is just mere personal fantasy. People like this are usually looking for a scapegoat for a problem that afflicts him. So people paranoid including the low level of maturity because they do not want to deal with so-called peace lover or a closely related plegmatis. 

2. Troubled-ers 

In Big Indonesian Dictionary, confusion is defined as "a rollicking busy, hectic, chaotic or incoherent (to mind)." The word upset suddenly became popular and became trensetter among the youth, especially the ababil. The word is suddenly booming to mention the condition of the heart or mind of another upset, many problems or work. Though the language of psychology, confusion is the inability to define the problem. Turmoil will arise and hit the people who tend to want to avoid problems. Those who are troubled will tend to look for excuses to complete their responsibilities. Troubled people will also tend to blame others / looking for a scapegoat for the problems that beset him. Sadly, today many people upset that flooded social networking. A psychological study says that Facebook is now the place moaning while nggosip twitter become the most popular place for the confusion to divert kegalauannya. If we look further, the fact that this is so. Average or posting status of our young generation is quite sad, which contains most of the things that Animashaun, alay, or jablay which are sourced from the turmoil. People are upset is the second lowest level of maturity because they put emotional heart in solving problems and looking at only one side without any problems and justify rational thinking first, but if they look much wiser on the other hand, they will find solutions to many roads and masalaah, or at least the problem will be more easily visible. 

3. Mandiri 

Often we find some people try to solve their problems on their own, do not want any interference of others. People like this will try to solve the problem by working hard and focused on finding a solution of any problems it faces. 

Such people usually have the belief that those who earnestly'll reap the rewards (man Jadda wa jada). People who are in this type tend to be perfectionist or oriented kesempurn 

aan. They have a passion and high standards in terms of looking at things. People like this have started in the first stage of maturity, which already has a passion for living independently and having the courage to face the problem to be solved, not to be avoided. Nevertheless, there is also a lack of nurture this nature, especially if it is too independent. People who are too independent capability of high need, because they will find it difficult if there are many problems that come simultaneously. Moreover, when they have to solve a problem is likely to be feeling cocky or too confident. Worse, if they have not been able to solve the problem for a long time after they were struggling, would potentially saturated if it is not accompanied by a sense of sincerity. What's worse is when it comes to blame God, saying God is not fair, or was not received by the many problems that beset him. 

4. Sociable 

Sometimes it will be very difficult to solve the problem alone, so they need help from others to participate finish. This is where important or what friends are there when we need it. The people are outgoing, sociable, and many friends are less likely to find it difficult to solve the problem because a lot of people around him who are willing to help, except for a very personal factors that are usually kept for yourself. Therefore, such people tend to look carefree, always cheerful, and if no problems. People who are in this type can be said to have grown because they've been able to manage the problem with in-outsourced to others. They've been able to find the angle of view or another way to solve the problem. However, the shortage is because too often enlist the help of others, it is possible that the individual capabilities of doubt when it comes to solve the problem alone. 

5. The Manager 

A manager must have extensive knowledge and be able to look at problems from different aspects to solve it. People who spirited managers usually called wise men are able to set the proportion of when and how big a problem that is able to face him and when he had to ask for help from others. Therefore, I wonder if people like this are usually able to mediate problems between the two sides, so he is considered mature and ditokohkan in the community. People in this stage are usually facing a complex problem, yet they are always trying to optimal either independently or with the help of others to be combined to get the right formula to resolve the problem. Nonetheless, behind all its advantages, there are potential drawbacks can arise for people like this if it did not have the knowledge and understanding of both religions. Due to the characterizations and the principles that he had, there would be potential for him to be a dictator or a person who easily against the things that are contrary to the principle. 

6. True Muslim 

Group is what can be said as one who has the highest level of maturity. They were able to combine all the resources at their disposal and have a qualified religious capabilities to solve problems in different ways, viewpoints, and effort. Such people have to understand that all the problems of life comes from Allah SWT. So the most effective way to overcome the problem is to seek assistance from Allah SWT. In the Qur'an Allah has informed any formula to break down all the complicated problems that afflict us: "And call it the name of your Lord, and Worship him wholeheartedly. (He is) Lord's east and west, there is no god but He, so make him as a protector. "(Sura Muzzammil: 8-9). That is, our job is not in trouble when using our power to resolve it, nor to use our intelligence to fix it, but by first making our worship as a weapon to deal with any problem! Rest assured that only our duty in this world is to pray to Him. Thus, any problems that come our way we will actually finish with his will, as long as we wholeheartedly worship only. The definition of worship itself is quite spacious. The point of worship is to try and work or activities intended to obtain Ridha Allah SWT.